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Friday, July 17, 2020

A Man's Got To Have a Code (Poem)

๐—” ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป’๐˜€ ๐—ด๐—ผ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ
(๐™Ž๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ฅ ๐™œ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™ง-๐™—๐™–๐™จ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ก๐™š๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š)

๐šˆ๐š˜๐šž ๐š‘๐šŠ๐šŸ๐šŽ ๐šŠ ๐š—๐šŽ๐š›๐šŸ๐šŽ ๐š๐š˜ ๐š ๐š˜๐š—๐š๐šŽ๐š›
๐š ๐š‘๐šŽ๐š›๐šŽ ๐š ๐šŽ ๐š ๐šŽ๐š—๐š ๐š ๐š›๐š˜๐š—๐š!

๐š†๐š‘๐šŽ๐š›๐šŽ ๐š๐š˜ ๐™ธ ๐š‹๐šŽ๐š๐š’๐š—
๐š๐š˜ ๐š๐šŽ๐šœ๐šŒ๐š›๐š’๐š‹๐šŽ ๐šŽ๐šŠ๐šŒ๐š‘ ๐š‹๐šŽ๐šŠ๐š๐š’๐š—๐š?

๐š†๐š‘๐šŽ๐š›๐šŽ ๐š๐š˜ ๐™ธ ๐š‹๐šŽ๐š๐š’๐š—
๐š๐š˜ ๐šœ๐š‘๐šŠ๐š›๐šŽ ๐š–๐šข ๐š‘๐šŽ๐šŠ๐š•๐š’๐š—๐š?

๐™ผ๐š› ๐š–๐šŠ๐š—, ๐šข๐š˜๐šž ๐š˜๐š—๐šŒ๐šŽ ๐š™๐š›๐š˜๐š–๐š’๐šœ๐šŽ๐š
๐š๐š˜ ๐š‘๐šŠ๐šŸ๐šŽ ๐š–๐šข ๐š‹๐šŠ๐šŒ๐š”,
๐š‹๐šž๐š ๐š๐š‘๐šŠ๐š'๐šœ ๐š ๐š‘๐šŽ๐š›๐šŽ ๐šข๐š˜๐šž ๐š™๐šž๐š
๐š๐š‘๐šŽ ๐šŒ๐š˜๐š•๐š ๐š”๐š—๐š’๐š๐šŽ!

๐™ฝ๐š˜๐š๐š‘๐š’๐š—๐š’๐šœ ๐šŠ๐šœ ๐šœ๐š๐š›๐š˜๐š—๐š ๐šŠ๐š—๐š ๐š๐šŽ๐š—๐š๐šŽ๐š›
๐šŠ๐šœ ๐š•๐š˜๐šŸ๐šŽ, ๐š‹๐šž๐š ๐šข๐š˜๐šž ๐šŒ๐šŠ๐š— ๐š‘๐šŠ๐šŸ๐šŽ ๐š’๐š ๐š‹๐šŠ๐šŒ๐š”
- ๐šŠ ๐š–๐šŠ๐š—'๐šœ ๐š๐š˜๐š ๐š๐š˜ ๐š‘๐šŠ๐šŸ๐šŽ ๐šŠ ๐šŒ๐š˜๐š๐šŽ!

๐š„๐š—๐š•๐š’๐š”๐šŽ ๐šข๐š˜๐šž, ๐™ธ ๐š‘๐šŠ๐šŸ๐šŽ ๐šŠ ๐šŒ๐š˜๐š๐šŽ
๐šŒ๐šŠ๐š•๐š•๐šŽ๐š ๐š๐š›๐šž๐šŽ ๐š•๐š˜๐šŸ๐šŽ,
๐š‹๐šž๐š ๐šข๐š˜๐šž ๐šœ๐šŠ๐š  ๐šŠ๐š— ๐šž๐š—๐š ๐šŠ๐š—๐š๐šŽ๐š ๐š๐š’๐š๐š,
๐šŠ๐š—๐š ๐š›๐š’๐š™๐š™๐šŽ๐š ๐š’๐š ๐šŠ๐š™๐šŠ๐š›๐š
๐š ๐š’๐š๐š‘ ๐š‹๐šž๐š•๐š•๐šŽ๐š ๐š‘๐šŠ๐š›๐š ๐š ๐š˜๐š›๐š๐šœ
- ๐šŠ ๐š–๐šŠ๐š—'๐šœ ๐š๐š˜๐š ๐š๐š˜ ๐š‘๐šŠ๐šŸ๐šŽ ๐šŠ ๐šŒ๐š˜๐š๐šŽ!

๐™ธ ๐š ๐š˜๐š—'๐š ๐š›๐š’๐šŒ๐š˜๐šŒ๐š‘๐šŽ๐š ๐š๐š˜ ๐š ๐š‘๐šŠ๐š ๐š‹๐š›๐š˜๐š”๐šŽ ๐š–๐šŽ,
๐™ธ ๐š ๐š˜๐š—'๐š ๐šœ๐š•๐š’๐š™ ๐š˜๐š› ๐šœ๐š๐šž๐š–๐š‹๐š•๐šŽ
๐š˜๐šŸ๐šŽ๐š› ๐šœ๐š˜๐š–๐šŽ๐š๐š‘๐š’๐š—๐š ๐š๐š‘๐šŠ๐š’๐šœ ๐š‹๐šŽ๐š‘๐š’๐š—๐š ๐š–๐šŽ!

๐™ด๐šŸ๐šŽ๐š›๐šข ๐š‹๐š›๐šž๐š’๐šœ๐šŽ ๐šŠ๐š—๐š ๐š‹๐š˜๐š—๐šŽ ๐š‘๐šŠ๐šœ ๐š‘๐šŽ๐šŠ๐š•๐šŽ๐š,
๐šŠ๐š—๐š ๐™ธ ๐š ๐š’๐š•๐š• ๐š•๐š’๐šŸ๐šŽ ๐š’๐š— ๐šœ๐š™๐š’๐š๐šŽ ๐š˜๐š ๐šข๐š˜๐šž!

๐™ธ ๐š ๐š’๐š•๐š• ๐šœ๐šž๐š›๐šŸ๐š’๐šŸ๐šŽ ๐š‹๐šŽ๐šŒ๐šŠ๐šž๐šœ๐šŽ ๐š๐šŽ๐šŠ๐š›๐šœ
๐š๐š›๐šข ๐š˜๐š— ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ๐š’๐š› ๐š˜๐š ๐š—
- ๐šŠ ๐š–๐šŠ๐š—'๐šœ ๐š๐š˜๐š ๐š๐š˜ ๐š‘๐šŠ๐šŸ๐šŽ ๐šŠ ๐šŒ๐š˜๐š๐šŽ!

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Friday, July 3, 2020

Taxi Queen (Poetry)

๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜…๐—ถ ๐—พ๐˜‚๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป

๐—ƒ๐—’ ๐—๐–บ๐—Œ ๐—Œ๐–พ๐—Œ๐—๐—‚๐–พ๐—‡ ๐–พ๐—‡ ๐—†๐–บ๐—†๐—†๐–บ ๐—Œ๐–พ ๐—„๐—…๐–พ๐—‚๐—‡๐–ฝ๐—‚๐—‡๐—€
๐—†๐–บ๐–บ๐—‹ ๐—‡๐—ˆ๐—Ž ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐–พ ๐—๐–บ๐—‘๐—‚ ๐–ฝ๐—‹๐—‚๐—๐–พ๐—‹ ๐—Œ๐–พ ๐–ป๐–พ๐—Œ๐—‚๐—๐—๐—‚๐—‡๐—€

๐—ƒ๐—’’๐—Œ ๐—‡๐—ˆ๐—ˆ๐—‚๐— ๐—…๐–บ๐–บ๐— ๐—๐—‚๐—‹ ‘๐—‡ ๐–ฟ๐—‹๐–พ๐–พ-๐—‹๐—‚๐–ฝ๐–พ
๐–พ๐—‡ ๐—๐—ˆ๐—‹๐–ฝ ๐—Œ๐—๐—‚๐—‰๐—๐–พ๐—…๐—‚๐—„ ๐—‡รก ๐—Œ๐—„๐—ˆ๐—ˆ๐—… ๐—„๐—ˆ๐—† ๐—๐–บ๐–บ๐—…
๐—๐–บ๐—‡๐— ๐—ƒ๐—’’๐—Œ ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐–พ ๐–ฝ๐—‹๐—‚๐—๐–พ๐—‹ ๐—Œ๐–พ ๐–ป๐—‹๐—‚๐–ฝ๐–พ
๐–บ๐—…๐—๐–บ๐—’๐—Œ ๐—๐—‚๐—…๐—…๐—‚๐—‡๐—€ ๐–พ๐—‡ ๐–ป๐–บ๐—‚๐–พ ๐—Œ๐—‰๐–พ๐—Œ๐—‚๐–บ๐–บ๐—…

๐—†๐–บ๐–บ๐—‹ ๐—†๐–บ๐—†๐—†๐–บ ๐—Œ๐–พ ๐—‰๐—‹๐—‚๐—‡๐—Œ๐–พ๐—Œ๐—Œ๐—‚๐–พ ๐—๐–พ๐— ๐—๐–พ๐—‹๐—€๐–พ๐–พ๐—
๐—ˆ๐—† ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐–พ ๐—†๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‡๐—‚๐—‡๐—€-๐–บ๐–ฟ๐—๐–พ๐—‹ ๐—‰๐—‚๐—… ๐—๐–พ ๐—๐–บ๐—
๐—‡๐—ˆ๐—Ž’๐—Œ ๐—ƒ๐—’ ๐—‰๐—‹๐–พ๐—€๐—€๐—‚๐–พ๐—Œ ๐–พ๐—‡ ๐—๐—’ ๐—‚๐—Œ ๐—„๐—๐–บ๐–บ๐–ฝ

๐–ฝ๐—‚๐–พ ๐—€๐—‚๐–ฟ๐—๐—Œ ๐—๐–พ๐— ๐—๐—Ž๐—… ๐—๐–บ๐—…๐—Ž๐–พ ๐—๐–พ๐—‹๐—…๐—ˆ๐—ˆ๐—‹
๐–พ๐—‡ ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐–พ ๐—‹๐—‚๐–ฝ๐–พ ๐—๐–พ๐— ๐–พ๐—‘๐—‰๐–พ๐—‡๐—Œ๐—‚๐—๐–พ ๐—€๐–พ๐—๐—ˆ๐—‹๐–ฝ
๐—๐–บ๐—‡๐— ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐–พ ๐–ฝ๐—‹๐—‚๐—๐–พ๐—‹ ๐–พ๐—‡ ๐—€๐—Ž๐–บ๐—‹๐–ฝ๐—ƒ๐—‚๐–พ ๐—‚๐—Œ ๐—ˆ๐—‰ ๐—ƒ๐—ˆ๐—Ž ๐—Œ๐—‰๐—ˆ๐—ˆ๐—‹
๐—ˆ๐—†๐–ฝ๐–บ๐— ๐—ƒ๐—’ ๐–ฝ๐—‹๐–พ๐—‚๐—€ ๐—ˆ๐—† ๐—๐–พ ๐–บ๐–ป๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—

“๐—€๐—ˆ๐—Ž, ๐—†๐–บ๐—†๐—†๐–บ ๐—Œ๐–พ ๐—‰๐—‹๐—‚๐—‡๐—Œ๐–พ๐—Œ๐—Œ๐—‚๐–พ, ๐—ƒ๐—Ž๐—†๐—‰ ๐—Ž๐—‚๐— ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐–พ ๐—๐–บ๐—‘๐—‚
๐–ฝ๐—‚๐–พ ๐–บ๐—Ž๐—๐—๐—ˆ๐—‹๐—‚๐—๐—‚๐–พ๐—Œ ๐—„๐–บ๐—‡ ๐–ฝ๐—‚๐— ๐—‡๐—‚๐–พ ๐—Œ๐—๐—ˆ๐—‰ ๐—‡๐—‚๐–พ
๐—ƒ๐—’ ๐—๐–พ๐—‹๐–ฝ๐—‚๐–พ๐—‡ ๐—‡๐—‚๐–พ ๐—๐—‚๐–พ๐—‹๐–ฝ๐—‚๐–พ ๐—‰๐—‹๐—’๐—Œ ๐—‡๐—‚๐–พ”

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Monday, June 8, 2020

This Much I Know: About Racism (R.I.P. George Floyd)

This much I know about racism:

I was a teenager during the apartheid uprisings. I’ve witnessed my people being pushed to the edge. Now, I don’t pretend to be perfect, or say everything perfectly. However, if seeing people looting shops and burning buildings upset you more than a white cop killing a black man, then you’re not part of the solution; you're part of the problem. Protesting doesn’t damage the cause because I was part of the school boycotts in the 1980s, and we beat the monster called apartheid. Listen, institutional racism is very much alive in the workplace, sport, entertainment and politics. I do however agree with Barack Obama that “if we want to bring about real change, then the choice isn’t between protest and politics. We have to do both.” First, let’s raise awareness, then vote with our conscience. Like Socrates said, “An unexamined life is not worth living”.


knee to the neck – Bevan Boggenpoel
(in memory of George Floyd) 

he used his knee to his neck
holding George down
while his lacklustre colleagues
stood dutifully by

watching a black man 
pleading to be released
but they couldn't care less 
he’s now deceased

they killed a man 
as if he’s a slave 
sending him 
to an early grave 

he begged and pleaded 
“I can’t breathe”
but the racist persisted 
while he only saw their feet

when they're supposed to
serve and protect
they'd rather kill
with utter neglect

black lives matter 
that's a fact
but police brutality
is the violent act

justice for George
must be served 
a life behind bars
is what they deserve 

cities in unity
gather around
as another black man 
goes underground 

for too long 
this has been going on
no longer must black civilians
be trampled upon

by careless officers 
and just get away
thinking they can just
shoot and slay

thunder roars
as voices demand 
justice for George 
a man unarmed! 

©️ 05/06/2020 Bevan Boggenpoel


Thursday, April 23, 2020

Lockdown Journal - Day 28

My Lockdown Journal 2020 – Thursday, Day 28:

I love songs and poetry about the moon. Unfortunately, the novel coronavirus took centre stage when a supermoon beamed beautifully at us a few weeks ago. The moon has been at the centre of controversy when Buzz Aldrin and Neil Armstrong set foot on it in 1969. Many people thought that moon landing was fake. One thing that I know for sure is that the moon is made of cheese. There are thousands of conspiracy theories about it on the internet. According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, a conspiracy theory is, “a theory that explains an event or set of circumstances as the result of a secret plot by usually powerful conspirators.”

Over the past couple weeks, the strangeness of this lockdown life has seeped into every nook and cranny of our daily lives, exposing, among other things, the conspiracy theories. Social media has made it possible for people to say whatever they like and think. It’s a conspiracy theorist’s heaven. There are countless conspiracy theories flying around about the novel coronavirus. One popular conspiracy theory is that COVID-19 is a bioweapon created in a lab in China. I guess people begin to believe these theories, especially when professionals in the field make those claims.

COVID-19 has created a perfect storm for conspiracy theorists. I've observed on social media platforms just how much South Africans love conspiracy theories. Okay, some of it is humour, but the rest are serious claims. We all feel vulnerable because this pandemic and the effects of it on our daily lives are almost depressing. This could also be a reason why spreading conspiracy theories gives some people more of a feeling of control. It should stop because it’s a false sense of control. It causes more harm than anything during this trying time.

Claims that the government is using the lockdown restrictions to control its citizens is dangerous and laughable. The aim of these allegations is to ultimately force the government to lift the lockdown. Fighting a deadly virus like COVID-19 is not that simple. It is unrealistic to expect a normal life to return after the lockdown has been lifted even partially. Throughout the world, people are coming together to do what they can to fight the pandemic that has changed life as we know it. Let us fight this common enemy together by staying home.

The impact of COVID-19 on our psyche is severe. During the lockdown, many women, men and children are stuck at home with their abusers. The number of cases reported since the beginning of the lockdown is scary. The right thing to do is to help someone who needs our help. Call the Stop Gender-Based Violence Helpline on 0800 150 150.

#StayAtHome
#SaferTogether
#SocialDistancing
#LockdownJournal
#LockdownSouthAfrica
#COVID19

Wednesday, April 22, 2020

Lockdown Journal - Day 27

My Lockdown Journal 2020 – Wednesday, Day 27:

The country’s poorest of the poor are experiencing extreme hardship under the extended lockdown. This is not unique to South Africa because hundreds of third world countries around the world are going through the same hardships if not worse. We are all in this together.

Last night, President Cyril Ramaphosa announced a massive, R500-billion package aimed at loosening the grip that COVID-19 has on the economy. It is unprecedented, historic and unexpected. He announced that unemployed people, not in receipt of money from the Unemployment Insurance Fund, or a grant, will get R350 per month for 6 months. Grant beneficiaries are to receive an extra R250 a month for the next 3 months. He announced several other aid packages during the live broadcast.

The COVID-19 pandemic has given couch potatoes and keyboard protestors an opportunity to hurl criticism at our president with statements like, “not enough” and “stop the lockdown”. It seems to me that they refuse to take accountability because they expect the government to do its job of protecting its citizens. To lift the lockdown restrictions now would increase the transmission of the coronavirus dramatically.

The impact of COVID-19 on our psyche is severe. During the lockdown, many women, men and children are stuck at home with their abusers. The number of cases reported since the beginning of the lockdown is really scary. There is no excuse for abuse during or after lockdown. The bravest thing you and I can do is to help someone who needs help or is asking for help. Call the Stop Gender-Based Violence Helpline on 0800 150 150.

#StayAtHome
#SaferTogether
#SocialDistancing
#LockdownJournal
#LockdownSouthAfrica
#COVID19

Thursday, April 16, 2020

Lockdown Journal - Day 21

My Lockdown Journal 2020 – Thursday, Day 21:

More than two million cases of the new coronavirus have been officially registered around the world. The world as we know it has been tipped on its head. It feels as if we are literally caught up in a sci-fi movie. People around the world are “locked” in their homes in order to escape an invisible “monster” namely, COVID-19. Indeed, interesting times.

It would seem from new data that President Ramaphosa has implemented the lockdown in time to curb the spread of the coronavirus. I've heard that information about whether the lockdown has worked, will only be available in a week’s time. Let’s keep on praying for good news. It looks like the Democratic Republic of Conga is not only grappling with the COVID-19 but new cases of the Ebola virus. Let’s keep them in our prayers.

I’ve found some interesting information about the spreading of fake news during COVID-19 on Medium, an internet magazine. The article says, “Just like a virus, misinformation spreads by human contact. Viruses spread through physical contact while information spreads through a different type of contact, one that is immune to social distancing." But while messaging platforms make spreading fake news easier, the internet is but a tool for disseminating a human concoction. This could be why misinformation is so much more contagious than accurate information.

The answer is obvious: “Viruses need hosts so they can replicate and spread. This is also true for information. In this case, we are the growth medium: We feed the sources by reposting or retweeting something we’ve seen or read.” Think before you spread information.

Please ‘spread’ the following information: During the lockdown, many women, men and children are stuck at home with their abusers. There is no excuse for abuse during or after lockdown. The bravest thing you and I can do is to help someone who needs help or is asking for help. Call the Stop Gender-Based Violence Helpline on 0800 150 150.

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Tuesday, April 14, 2020

Lockdown Journal - Day 19

My Lockdown Journal 2020 – Tuesday, Day 19:

Nowadays thousands of South Africans leave their homes to deliver essential services to millions in lockdown. Armed with hand sanitisers, gloves, masks, and wet wipes, they leave their families behind to defend a nation against an invisible enemy.

Unfortunately, there is a visible enemy left behind at home called, abuse. During the lockdown, many South Africans (women, men and children) are stuck at home with their abusers. According to the Gender-Based Violence Command Centre, more than 2 300 gender-based violence complaints were registered in the first five days of lockdown. One can only imagine how high the figures are by now.

I pray that the abusers acknowledge the trauma they are putting their loved ones through. I pray that they learn to detest their own behaviour and come to true repentance. I pray that God keep us all safe in our relationships. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

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